Alexander Hamilton's Morristown Love Story

Morristown, New Jersey – Alexander Hamilton’s Roots

Known as “the cockpit of the American Revolution,” New Jersey has a rich history from the American Revolution. During the 2nd winter encampment in Morristown and the 4th in New Jersey, the winter of 1780 was the worst winter of the war. Historians state the winter of 1780 was the worst winter of the 18th century! Yet, for some reason, everyone thinks Valley Forge was the worst winter, yet Jockey Hollow’s cold, snowy, and disease-filled winter almost ended the war. There were 28 recorded snowstorms. One snowstorm dumped over six feet of snow on top of the current foot that was already there. Washington needed the troops to re-enlist for another year on December 31, 1779, and a considerable uprising occurred. The troops were going AWOL, and America’s future was in jeopardy. Yet, with over 7,600 continental soldiers being frostbitten, tired, sick, and ready to abandon the effort, there was still time for a love story.

In December 1779, with General Washington in Morristown and the Continental Army stationed five miles south in Jockey Hollow, New Jersey, is introduced to Alexander Hamilton. General Washington, Martha Washington, five aides-de-camp, including Hamilton, and 18 servants stayed in the mansion. Widow Ford and her children also remained in the house, which typically didn’t happen. Hamilton spent the winter serving General Washington as his aide-de-camp. As aid-de-camp, Hamilton was responsible for coordinating General Washington’s correspondence with fellow generals on current strategies and next steps on behalf of the general. Both resided at the Ford Mansion in Morristown. “Washington usually chose the best house in the neighborhood for his headquarters,” author Craig Mitchell writes in “George Washington’s New Jersey: A Guide to the Crossroads of the American Revolution.”

From March 1, 1777 (1st Morristown Encampment) to April 1781, Alexander Hamilton served as an aide-de-camp to Gen. Washington, holding the rank of lieutenant colonel and receiving a monthly pay of US$33. On the battlefield, the aides-de-camp were couriers, delivering Washington’s orders on horseback and gathering or relaying intelligence on enemy troop movement.

A Woman That Made Hamilton Forget the War’s Worst Winter

War efforts were typically slow in the winter. While the worst winter of the war was going on, one of the worst jobs as a soldier is the time waiting to fight. The sheer boredom often left many soldiers questioning the freedom cause. So what do you do in your spare time? They’d spend time with soldiers, colleagues, family, and friends. Wives would typically join their husband’s generals wherever they camped for the winter. Being a general had its privileges. The army would typically issue payment to homeowners willing to “rent” their house to the major generals for the Winter. These residents were sympathetic to the freedom cause and would rent their homes and then typically bunk with nearby family for the duration.

As the daughter of Revolutionary War General Philip Schuyler and heir to two of the wealthiest and most influential families in New York state politics, Elizabeth, also known as Eliza or Betsey, was considered one of the most eligible singles. Hamilton on Broadway fans might have seen the playbill referencing the Schuyler sisters as “A Woman’s World: Hamilton’s Leading Ladies, The Schuyler Sisters, on Being the Kardashians of the 1700s.”

Image – Hamilton on Broadway Playbill – aka the Kardashians of the 1700s!

The play Hamilton made light of the fact that the Schuyler Sisters were looking for husbands.

Luck should have it in January 1780 as Alexander Hamilton was reintroduced for the second time to Elizabeth “Betsey” Schuyler, who by coincidence was visiting her Aunt Gertrude Schuyler Cochran and Uncle John in Morristown. Betsy’s Uncle John Cochran was General Washington’s doctor while in Morristown. The Cochrans were Jabez Campfield’s guests and the house’s owner at the time. “Washington and his officers hosted four to five dances throughout the winter. Betsey Schuyler and Alexander Hamilton met at one of those dances,” says National Park Service guide Kim Watts.

Elizabeth Betsy Schuyler

Elizabeth “Betsy” became close friends with Martha Washington, who traveled to live with her husband at the Ford Mansion in Morristown. Betsy visited Martha often. The journey from the Cochran house to the Ford Mansion was less than a 1/4 mile east or about a 5-10 minute walk. Betsey later said of Mrs. Washington, “She was always my ideal of a true woman.”

Letters To Elizabeth

While Alexander Hamilton was a soldier in August 1780, he struggled with the thought of his bride bringing herself down to a farmer’s level. At the time, Hamilton was also writing an attack plan to recapture Manhattan and Brooklyn from the British, so maybe that was the work he couldn’t concentrate on while thinking about his beloved.

In a letter from Hamilton to Elizabeth in August 1780:

“… I can be happy in any situation and can struggle with every embarrassment of fortune with patience and firmness. I cannot, however, forbear entreating you to realize our union on the dark side and satisfy, without deceiving yourself, how far your affection for me can make you happy in a privation of those elegancies to which you have been accustomed.” “My heart overflows with every thing for you, that admiration, esteem and love can inspire. I would this moment give the world to be near you only to kiss your sweet hand. Believe what I say to be truth and imagine what are my feelings when I say it. Let it awake your sympathy and let our hearts melt in a prayer to be soon united, never more to be separated.”
Alexander Hamilton’s love letters are found in the Columbia University Archives.

Engaged in April 1780, when Betsy was 22, the two were married eight months later, on December 14, 1780, when Alexander was 23. They were married at the Schuyler Mansion in Albany, New York. Hamilton later called her his “nut-brown maid.”

Hamilton’s devotion to and love for Elizabeth remained true and constant throughout the rest of his life. His letter to her, penned on July 4th, 1804—a week before the duel with Aaron Burr, reads: “…With my last idea, I shall cherish the sweet hope of meeting you in a better world. Adieu, best of wives and best of Women. Embrace all my darling Children for me. Ever yours, A. H. Elizabeth outlived her husband by fifty years. Her heart’s deepest wish remained that she would be reunited with her Hamilton in the life beyond.

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“The Worst Winter” – 1779-1780 Morristown

Back then, soldiering was a three-season occupation followed by a winter standing down. Soldiers were still soldiers but would typically not engage their opponents. While the American Revolutionary War took eight years, from the battles of Lexington and Concord (1775) to the surrender at Yorktown in 1783, For some reason, everyone seems to remember the Winter at Valley Forge. The weather took an especially harsh toll on the 7,460 patriot troops holed up with General George Washington in Morristown, N.J. Hamilton was rising in the military and had been an aide de camp to the Commander in Chief for over two years. Hamilton would spend much of the time at the Ford Mansion dealing with communications, planning, and counseling Washington.

Revolutionary War – Continental Army Winter Encampments
1777 – (Jan-May) Lowantica Valley Morris County, Chatham Township, New Jersey, Washington / Arnold’s Tavern (Morristown). Hamilton fights in the battles of Brandywine Creek, Germantown, and Princeton. He is appointed a lieutenant colonel on George Washington’s staff.
1777-1778 – Valley Forge – Washington / Isaac Potts House,
1778-1779 – 1st Middlebrook/Pluckemin – Washington / Somerville & others, Knox/Pluckemin, before this Hamilton fights in the Battle of Monmouth.
1779-1780 – 1st Morristown/Jockey Hollow – “The Worst Winter” Washington/Ford Mansion, William Alexander (Lord Stirling) / Basking Ridge. Before this encampment, Hamilton wrote to John Jay, suggesting that slaves be recruited to fight and freed. Hamilton is still Washington’s Aid-de-camp.
1780-1781 – 2nd Middlebrook – Washington/Thomas Ellison House (Windsor, NY). Before this encampment, Hamilton marries Elizabeth Schuyler.
1781-1782 – 2nd Morristown Jockey Hollow – Washington/John Penn House (Phila.) – Hamilton quarrels with Washington and resigns from Washington’s staff.
1782-1783 – New Windsor, Hudson Highlands, Washington/Jonathan Hasbrouck House (Newburg, NY).

Alexander Hamilton’s unique vantage point as a member of Washington’s staff gave him a clear understanding of the effect a weak Continental Congress had on the country’s finances, not to mention the inability to finance the army. In an extensive letter written at Morristown but never sent, Hamilton spelled out his plan to solve the economic problems of the young United States. The plan centers around the creation of ―an American bank, instituted by authority of Congress for ten years under the denomination of The Bank of The United States.‖ Lessons learned at Morristown about government and finance would serve Washington and Hamilton well. Years later, they would be key players in creating and managing a stable financial system and a new Federal Government.

Nearby Generals

Nathaniel Green and his wife Catherine Greene would arrive in Morristown in November 1779 and stayed at the Arnold Tavern in the center of the town. On January 29, 1780, Catherine Greene gave birth to a boy, Nathaniel Ray Greene, their fourth child.

William Alexander, one of Washington’s closest and most trusted Major Generals, also spent the winter in the area. General Alexander, also known as Lord Stirling, was a resident of Basking Ridge, just 11 miles south of Morristown. His wife Kitty was also a very close friend of Martha Washington. So, there’s a certainty that Hamilton and Alexander also met during the winter of 1779-1780.

So now our story has a legitimate tie to the Somerset Hills area and the super-famous Alexander Hamilton. From Morristown and Basking Ridge to Broadway.

Alexander Hamilton’s Morristown Love Story

Morristown, New Jersey – Alexander Hamilton’s Roots